Event horizon

I no longer have the patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature.

I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretence, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise.

I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities.

In friendship, I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement.

Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals.

And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.

We Don't Talk Anymore

Cause even after all this time I still wonder why I can't move on just the way you did so easily. Every now and then I think you might want me to come show up at your door but I'm just too afraid that I'll be wrong.

But there is one thing that I can not lie, that I miss you so badly. 

How I wish things could go differently.

yyg.

Sunday

I just notice that I lost my safe space. The place that I always speak out my truest feeling. Where I believe no one will ever notice or read about it. Guess I lost the last trail of our photo as well. The photo that I always login at night and look at it before I go to sleep. To remind me how beautiful my life is before.

I am speechless...

I don't know if I want to cry..

It just I lost my will at anything..


Me and my endless begging, naivety and faith.

This could happen to me. Losing you.

One day, you'll remember the man who loved you so much that he forgot to love himself. You'll remember him when you wake up, when you eat, when you're about to sleep. He will be your greatest nightmare. You will be the one crying, and he will be the one happy with someone else.

One day, you'll regret losing him. You lost the man who did everything for you. You lost the man who has always there for you when no one else is. You lost him because of your ego. You lost the man who stayed by yourself even if you threw harsh words to him. You lost the man who tried to understand you when he needed you and you were not there.

One day, you'll realize that he was the one for you. The man who stood by your side even if you don't appreciate him. The man you choose to let go because you're full of pride. One day, you'll realize that the man you screwed up and left for another man, was the man who kept fighting and defending you when he hears gossips about you.

One day, you'll see him happy and contented with the life he has when you left him. He will thank you for letting him go and for making him realize he is worth of something so much better, that there is someone out there who is willing to do everything for him. He will look into your eyes with no feelings for you at all.

One day, when you see him, you will feel like you've been stabbed in your heart a million times for giving up on him. And when that day comes, no matter what you do, no matter what you say to him, it will not make sense because he was already done spending days of his life trying to make you love him as he loved you... but you didn't.

Hikayat Cik Su

Usually, she will be laughing to this with her eye rolling, but now she probably thinking I just being sarcastic and mean.

Yah, I do miss her laughter. :)

Hotter than hell

She calls me the devil, I make her wanna sin. 

Every time I knock, she can't help but let me in. 

Must be homesick for the real and I'm the most real it gets. 

You probably still adore me with my hands around your neck.

Can you feel the warmth as my kiss goes down you like some sweet alcohol? 

Where I'm coming from, it's the darker side of me that makes you feel so numb. 

You're my manna from heaven, we all gotta get fed. 

Can let me know I'm wanted, can let me in your head? 

I'm not here to make you kneel but it's praise that I'll get. 

You ain't gonna walk free girl, not finished with you yet, NO.

Cause we're hot as hell. Does it burn when I'm not there? 

When you're by yourself, am I the answer to your prayers? 

I'm giving you that pleasure, heaven.

And I'll give it to you, hotter than hell. 

Best Laid Plan Of Mice and Men

Where do I begin? 

This time I don't want it to be metaphorical, I'm gonna write it straight from my heart. But before you read, please play the song repeating thru your entire session of reading this long post.


Dear to my loyal ghost reader, 

I know you been wandering every once a day here to see if I have any response to your cruel and intentionally to hurt me post. Honestly speaking I don't have any comeback. Matter of fact, I take it very hard. If last October your knife stab straight to my heart, this time you make it deep pass thru my heart from the back. And yes I cried tremendously, not in a fictional way. I'm not looking forward to your pity about it. But I just want to let out why I been protecting my feeling by acting that everything is okay and being such an ass during the post-breakup. And I'm not gonna talk about the content of your post. And I will try very best to keep it short and just the things between you and me. All of this is my truest feeling.

I will always be me. No matter how the world falls upon me, I will keep myself for me. You said what I did is hurt like hell? Are you sure I'm the one hurting you, or all this while you the one who been hurting yourself? And you need me to take all the blame and pain? Don't lie to our self, you know me as much as I know you. If whatever you feel now is hell, I am truly really sorry, I never have the intention to hurt your feelings. But it doesn't change the fact that I am still living in the hell of missing you. You probably been thinking all this while I must be living the best time of my life? How more selfish can we ever be to act like we don't know each other feeling well enough? 

The wound never heal. Even till now. Every day I have to wake up in the morning and hold my heart to stay strong. I couldn't stop thinking about us each night before I go to sleep. Do you ever wonder why I missed called you every midnight before sleep a few months back? You must've thinking that I purposely to annoy you, but I am not. It's kinda my way to tell you good night and I miss you. But eventually one night I stop doing it. Not because I met somebody new, I stop because I started to letting it go, not you, but those hurting feeling that keeps wanting me to blaming you for all the misery I have to go thru. Yeah, I always know you also have the fair share of sadness from the breakup. Trust me, I know, because I know you.

Some more every time I stop by to your Instagram, it hurts to have the idea planted in my head that you already have moved on with someone new, what's more to received the news from your friend thru a phone call. Handing me the news by calling me "pathetic". It never gets easier. What's more, to have the idea in my head that your new guy provide you a car, and you tag me along to find him a hundred ringgit gadget gift. And you leisurely doing it while the blood still red and the heart still cracked, even the pain still vibrating in between the wound, but I can't just let you see me fully weak with jealousy, what's more, I don't want to miss the chance to actually get to hang out with you. I swallowed all the pain, I can't sleep a night before because so excited and worry at the same time. In pain I miss you, with tears, I remember us. Even hell can't change my good nature of sincerity. I will always be me. And you know that. It will never be easy for me when it comes to the idea of losing you. What's more with the idea of you with someone else.

Nothing is easy even until these days. 3 solid years, every single day and night, can't even be erased with a river of tears. It doesn't go away just like that. That's not how my feelings work. We do have the best of 3 years, didn't we? But all of it comes to be the best-laid plan, for now. You know it, I know it, both of us know it. It falls apart with no one to be blamed on. Not you and not even me. It just the nature of its course, it is a best-laid plan, often go awry, no matter how carefully we planned, something may still go wrong with it, no apparent reason, or because of something inevitable. And that's why I always need to know where your heart belongs. Even if I can only have the little vibe of your feelings towards me, to always know that we always want to be with each other but we can't, it is good enough for me, at least to go thru all the coming days without you by my side anymore.

People expecting me to be strong, selfish and be more than what I get to offer. Even you don't want to let me know how you feel about us, maybe because we have been taught that gesture is a sign of weakness. Or maybe we are truly not special enough for each other. I don't know. For me, you are really special. You are my love. The feelings are impossible to just go away. I just channel those mixed feeling and energy to Bilik Rakaman. That is my priority now. I wanna make my dream come true.

I don't want to fight anymore, don't want to argue anymore, nor I don't want to try to win the breakup. You're my dear one, I admit I can't do all this anymore. I don't have the strength and not willing to trade all the beautiful things about us into resentment or anger. I really appreciate all the time we have spent built together. So no, I will never afford to throw it all away just for the sake of winning an argument. From now on I will only listen to whatever things you have to say about us. I think it's time for us to heal each other. Yes, I am not perfect, and I do realize that. I'm also capable of hurting everybody feelings, even with good intention. Even tho I could, when it comes to you, I really never can do it intentionally. Maybe we already get used to the way you always blocked yourself from seeing it thru me, I really could never blame you for that. But maybe that one time probably my intention is very clear to be mad at you. I am sorry if the "Narcissistic" post hit you hard. I am sorry for the half of whatever awful things I said. Especially the part I may or may not did compare you with her. I just feel mad when you push me away when I being nice to you.

But, on the other half regarding my post, I really meant it. I think I know you better than anyone else. I've seen the best of you. And what you becoming is not healthy and I am worried. I know I sounded pretentiously overconfident, but this is my honest feeling. I can't accept myself if I just let you fall and becoming a narcissistic person. I care for you so much. And I said all those hell awful things because I want you to be the best that you can be. The version of you that I always know is a person that have a happy heart and kindness. You're a lover of the wild and a joker of the heart, who are always smarter than me. Don't go backward with sorrow feelings, keep it strong and move forward. Because 3 years ago, you teach me a lot about how to look forward in life. I owe you that one, so this is how I want to live myself up to that potential you showed me. Sorry if my way always sounded harsh, it's only because I care. You know me if I don't care I already ignore you a long time ago. I always support your cause, as long it is for the good life that you deserve.

And regarding your post, yeah I read it once and it hit me really hard. I cried for days. Matter of fact it leads me to a new trouble, and you truly broke me. I am damaged by it. Totally broken. But now, to think of it. I had it coming. After all, I think I deserve it. And also I think you kinda need it, obviously, you need it. Ever since the breakup you probably have a lot of painfull feelings bottled up, I am sorry for being blind and selfish to not see your fair share of the tragedy. Both of our posts are so childish and immature, I admit it, mine is, as you said, it hurt like hell, I'm pretty sure it did hurt me like hell, but mine hurt you first in a simpler way, and that's the reasons why you posted yours. You really need it as an outlet to let all bad feelings inside you out. Beside me, you truly have nobody to be your punching bag, I spoiled you too much I guess. Haha, but it's okay. No worries now, I have no hard feelings about it. Somehow I gonna used it as a list to improve myself. But like I said, from now on, I want a ceasefire between us, a truce. I can't afford to hurt your feeling anymore, even tho I may or may not be mad at you in future, I just not willing to trade all the good memories just for the sake to hurt your feelings. It's our privacy thing and it is very personal to me. I keep it safe, only for me. Could never delete it. You know me how I like to keep things like a vault of a time machine.

After all, I still looking forward to living up to both of our grand promises. And I can't accomplish it without you not be part of my life, at least as a good friend for now. If only you still want to be my friend, because hell I really need you as a real friend right now. But if you don't want, I would understand. I'm not gonna force you or lead you to it. I just gonna let you find yourself back and live a very good life as how you always desire. But I really hope we can be a very best friend. My prayer and doa will always have your full name in it.

Again, I am sorry for all the things I ever did that hurt your feelings. And I am sorry it didn't work out between us. I will always know how both of us want to have a life together, but for now, it just a best-laid plan. And maybe it is okay. Doesn't mean I will easily forget your smile. Hope you could forgive me.

How abang Jat and kak Suraya get to be together story always inspired me. No hopes, no false necessary, but for the time being, let us take the chance to improve our self and be ready, for whatever in future are coming.

Reserved yourself for someone that deserve k. :)

Hope my short post not so sweaty, emotional and fictional, haha I'm just kidding.

Always be happy okay? :) 
Or maybe sushi together some day in future. Haha
Pray the best for my happiness as well k.


p/s: I got a secret and I'm not gonna tell you anytime soon.

yyg.

Maybe We’re Not Meant For Each Other, And Maybe That’s Okay

I look back on the life that we shared, and immediately my heart feels an intense sense of longing. I remember when I said I wanted you to stay in my life because I couldn’t imagine living every day without you. I remember all the nights that we spent as if the world was ours as if we were the only two people in the world.

You have no idea how much I remember every single moment that I had with you.

Because how could I forget a part of my life that was once special to my heart?

I think that wherever place I will end up, and whatever situation I will find myself in the future — I will always remember you as I look up at the dark expanse of the sky. And I don’t think I will ever forget you, even if we lost each other, even if our relationship was short-lived.

You will always be my favorite person to write about. You will always be the story that I love to tell the people that I meet. You will always be someone who made a huge difference in my life.

You will always be the best thing that I have set free.

But as for now, I am gradually accepting that maybe we’re not really meant for each other. Maybe the universe has a better plan for me, a plan that I don’t know yet. Maybe someone is already destined to be your better half. And although it’s heartbreaking to know that it’s not me you’re going to spend the rest of your life with, I am still trying my best to be happy for you, for both of us.

I am trying to distance myself from you, hoping that it’s going to be an easy healing for me. I am trying not to imagine how settled and content you are in your life, while I am here putting my broken pieces together.

But I know that I am strong enough to mend this heartache.

I know that time is going to help me understand why you are not meant for me. I know that the universe is setting up a plan for me to meet someone, who’s going to fill my life with joy better than you did. I know that a few months from now, I will remember you but I will no longer remember the feelings that you gave me.

And when that time comes, my heart will be ready to be claimed by someone who will be honored to take care of it and complete it. I will be so happy in someone else’s arms that the pain I got from you will become irrelevant. I will see my reflection in someone’s eyes, and be overwhelmed to realize that it feels just right.

I will no longer have to doubt myself if I’m giving out too much love or too less of it because I will be certain for sure that the love I’m sharing is going to come back at me.

I will feel like the world is being nice to me again. I will be satisfied in my life, knowing that I have everything that makes my heart beat wildly. I will no longer miss the things that I lost, the people that I lost.

And I will be matured enough to completely understand why the universe didn’t make us be together, for now. 

you don't know what it's like

you don't know what it's like

oh girl,

you really don't know what it feels like.

Goodbye My Friendly Friends

I have to let go all of you, all the best time together I will never dare to forget. Thank you for all the greatest journey and adventure..

MIJ Greco Les Paul Custom (1977) EG500 Law Suit era 
Pick ups already swap to Seymour Duncan JB (bridge) and Seymour Duncan Jazz (neck)

MICanada Godin Redline 1
Pick ups already swap to Seymour Duncan Distortion SH-6
Originally installed with EMG 81, so the guitar body area are ready made to install active pick ups

MIK ESP LTd Ec1000 Vintage Black 
Originally Installed with EMG 81 and EMG 86 pick ups
Mahogany Body and Neck
Ebony fretboard - 24 (3/4) set neck

MIK Epiphone Les Paul Standard (1995)

RINDU

Hey blog,
Sorry lama menghilang...
But as usual la kan, im only here when im so sad..

Today aku bangun and still crying,
Feel like crap, super crappaloza...

....

Sorry, I dont know what to say actually,
Sangat sangat speechless,
boleh tak aku start dengan aku tahu dia masih sayang kat aku
cinta kan aku...

in the same time aku tahu dia nak aku berubah...
bukan dia je...aku pun nak berubah untuk diri aku..
my father pun nak aku berubah..
my mom, my brother...
all my loves one...

aku lost, sangat sangat...hope ada yang faham..
aku sedih... aku rindu sangat kat dia..
entah lah... aku takut kerinduan aku mengganggu dia..
tapi tak pernah ada orang buat aku happy
macam dia buat aku happy.. sumpah tak tipu..
she's the best..amazing kan?

usually blog, kau pun tahu aku susah nak give in my heart..
tapi dengan dia sejak kali pertama bertemu.. i feel easy..
i open my heart straight away..
she's like angel... the way she talk..
the way she smile...yahhh especially her smile..

haisshhh why la all this have to happen to me..
aku nak berubah... even me myself hate myself yang now..
i prefer the version of me that always have things to do..
life being pretty hard on me...since like 10 years ago maybe..
but i try to take it easy...and maybe way too easy kot..
entah la...

well.. aku macam tak tahu nak kata apa blog...tolong la aku..
i really want to win her back...not just her...everything in my life
my job, my life, my family, my friends,
i lost most everything...i think pretty sure it is my fault...
im lucky my family still around.. but my dad sakit teruk now di hospital..
i always cry, takut takut aku tak sempat jadi yang terbaik utk dia..
haishhh... moga Allah beri aku petunjuk..
biar pun susah...aku akan guna petunjuk itu sebaik mungkin...

Lala.. dia gadis yang sungguh istimewa...
aku tak tau istimewa yang macam mana...
she next to my mom.. a woman that i want to marry someday..
and start a family of my own...
Bila dia hilang, aku resah sangat..
aku tak cerita dgn orang, dengan kau pun blog it take me a while to tell..
apa aku perlu buat blog utk menang semula hati dia?
cinta dia... kasih dia...
aku berjanji blog.. aku akan terus usaha sedaya upaya selagi nyawa ini masih ada..
untuk jadi yang terbaik utk dia...sampai jannah..
aku harap sangat dia buka hati dia utk aku...beri aku peluang..
ketenangan aku ada pada dia...
hehe aku tak tahu nak cerita macam mana blog... kalau kau ada mata,
sure kau akan tengok aku senyum je bila cerita pasal dia..

well.. aku tanak spoil semua in one post... till we meet again blog..
hey blog...kau sayang aku tak?
kalau kau sayang, sayang la betul betul k...sbb aku takde teman mengadu buat masa ni..
aku sedih sgt.. so hope u dont leave me k..
i always love you... :) its a promise.

bass line

i love bass line...
its the main groove for every songs..
but lately most song got a muddy bass sound,
its lifeless....and i miss the groove.

or maybe im just a drama king,
or maybe the ego of bass player...

all i ever wanted a nice bass line in every song..
doesn't matter if it a sad song, happy song or mad song..
because every song need a clear groove.

or else it gonna sound confuse

to my love bug lala

When a man loves a woman

Can't keep his mind on nothin' else

He'd trade the world

For a good thing he's found

If she is bad, he can't see it

She can do no wrong

Turn his back on his best friend

If he puts her down

When a man loves a woman

Spend his very last dime

Trying to hold on to what he needs

He'd give up all his comforts

And sleep out in the rain

If she said that's the way

It ought to be

When a man loves a woman

I give you everything I got (yeah)

Trying to hold on

To your precious love

Baby please don't treat me bad

When a man loves a woman

Deep down in his soul

She can bring him such misery

If she is playing him for a fool

He's the last one to know

Loving eyes can never see

Yes when a man loves a woman

I know exactly how he feels

'Cause baby, baby, baby

I am a man

When a man loves a woman

pretending I'm a superman

So here I am doing everything I can

holding on to what I am , pretending I'm a superman

I'm trying to keep the ground on my feet

it seems the world's falling down around me

The nights are all long

I'm singing this song to try and make the answers more than maybe

And I'm so confused about what to do

sometimes I want to throw it all away

So here I am growing older all the time

looking older all the time and feeling younger in my mind

I'm trying to sleep

I lost count of the sheep

my mind is racing faster every minute

What could I do more

yeah I'm really not sure

I know I'm running circles but I can't quit

Controlling everything in site

I'm feeling weak

I don't feel right

you're telling me I have to change

telling me to act my age

but if all that I can do is just sit and watch time go

then I'll have to say good-bye life's too short to watch it fly

holding on to what I am

pretending I'm a superman

Have faith in me

Have faith in me

Cause there are things that I've seen I don't believe

So cling to what you know and never let go

You should know things aren't always what they seem

I said I'd never let you go, and I never did

I said I'd never let you fall and I always meant it

If you didn't have this chance then I never did

You'll always find me right there, again

I'm going crazy

So we'll pretend it's alright

and stay in for the night

Oh what a world

I'll keep you safe here with me

So please

 Have faith in me

The Green Shirt

Damn it!!
Seriously!!
The more I sniff it...
And sleep with it...
Feel like she was here..
But cant have her...


I MISS YOU SO MUCH LA GILE!!!! 

why



you




do        this

to


ME 



?

ifeelsolala

I leave all the lights on

Guess things didn't go the way that I planned

I missed the days when you would understand

The way that I am

You have me feeling lonely and detached

Every time I'm moving forward

We take two steps back

I need to find the difference in how I feel and how I felt

I leave all the lights on

And maybe you'll find your way back home

I wish I could get back to the way things were

When we were young, having fun, so self assured

But now that's all a blur

I miss the way we always used to talk

Now we talk ourselves in circle till we forget why we fought

This gets me so down

Why can't we work it out? 

This makes me so down

I've been trying to see, if you were meant for me

I leave all the lights on, if you still cared I need to know.

LUCK

Ohhh luck, my biggest enemy.

I never believe in the concept of lucky

And yet I found my self lucky to where im standing now,

but not as much lucky as how in somebody else past.

Im always the kind of person who never get the 100 percent 

of how they used to give out in the past.

And that always make me feel like Im an experimental being.

Or reality for me, like I never meant to deserve it.

Trying, the only thing i never stop doing.

Its a lie if I never felt to give up.

I do, each of every second of my life.

But as much as I want to giving up.

I always felt that so much i could offer.

And that is the only thing I could feel good about my self,

be strong and always giving more.

Because I found it so unfair to let someone now

to suffer from my miserable past.

My baggage no need to be claim,

I dumped it somewhere I can see but could not reach,

So I can preserve so much room for better future.

And yet I could look back and learn to not submit the same mistake again.

Understanding, I'm clueless.

I don't even know if it just a metaphor for something,

or it just a made up constitution.

Because there is always a conflict between 

to be able to understand,

and to be understand.

Both way is a joke on me.

It make me confuse.

Life, typical drama, and yet I don't care.

All I know there is a

star

moon

cloud

rainbow

sky

and sun 

Then there is a small little corner in it

there is a prince and princess

Like how we used to say

"even we round the world in the opposite way, yet we found each other"

and I believe in that,

It is not luck, It is typical.

Yet it wonderful

But if life is just to remember all the bad things happen,

I should be allowed to chose the way I die,

and obviously the way not gonna let anyone to suffer.

 I drive my life to remember all the happiness

and reject to die before my eyes can see that 

we are happy with each other.

Thick and thin.

So you there who reading this

This is no competition statement

Not an argument to make.

This is how I love you.

To let you go into me.

And try to see how my head works.

But I can assure you,

I always do love you,

No matter how hard this road we taking,

I will be there, always.

To catch your smile fall out from the sky.

And let heaven be less happy now,

till the day I take you there.

And I never need luck to have you.

Because you deserve my effort 100 percent.

And in return, I hope you could do the same.

If not our journey to heaven not gonna be awesome.

Word could be really hurt.

But a smile of you could make it go away.

Simple as that.

That's how perfect you are in my eyes.

ifeelsolala.

Why I dont cheat?

because what I need is within me first (happiness) and my wife allows me be me

MY WIFE

The woman I marry is great with kids and eventually plans on having them.

The woman I marry doesn’t have to cook like a professional chef, but she is comfortable in the kitchen and CHOOSES to cook.

The woman I marry is domesticated enough and understands that marriage is all about teamwork.

The woman I marry couldn’t care less who she’s with as long as she’s comfortable and not disrespected.

The woman I marry wants to have a career she enjoys.

so to whom it may be concern...